5/7/2025 0 Comments May is Maternal Mental Health Month... but mama, let’s talk about something real.Sometimes, your peace starts with knowing your child is emotionally well.
If you’ve been feeling the weight of it all—school stress, big feelings, bedtime battles—you’re not alone. I just shared a powerful resource on the blog that might be exactly what your heart (and theirs) needs right now: 🧠 5 Powerful Ways to Strengthen Your Child’s Emotional Health and Happiness By Kerri Honeywood, Postpartum Doula, Childbirth Educator, & Community Health Worker Moon Cycle Mama Doula and Wellness As parents and caregivers, we all want our children to grow up feeling confident, secure, and emotionally resilient. In today’s fast-paced world, it’s more important than ever to be intentional about nurturing our little ones’ emotional well-being. The good news? It doesn’t require perfection — just a few daily, heart-centered practices can make a lasting impact. Here are 5 powerful ways to strengthen your child’s emotional health and happiness — starting at home. 🏡✨ 🌟 1. Use Positive Affirmations DailyChildren believe what they hear repeatedly — so let’s feed their minds with empowering truths. Try phrases like:
Keyword focus: affirmations for kids, building self-esteem in children 🛏️ 2. Set Gentle Routines Kids thrive on consistency. Establishing simple daily routines creates a sense of safety and structure. Think: morning rituals, consistent mealtimes, and predictable bedtimes. These routines aren’t just about schedules — they communicate love, security, and predictability, which is crucial for emotional development. Keyword focus: daily routine for toddlers, emotional safety for children 💬 3. Create Safe Space for ExpressionMake it okay for your child to feel and express their emotions — all of them. Encourage open dialogue by asking, “How did that make you feel?” or “What do you need right now?” This builds emotional intelligence, trust, and connection between you and your child. Keyword focus: emotional expression in kids, gentle parenting communication 🙏 4. Practice Gratitude TogetherGratitude shifts focus from what’s missing to what’s meaningful. Encourage your child to name one thing they’re thankful for each day. It’s a small habit that leads to a big emotional shift — helping children feel more content, connected, and joyful. Keyword focus: gratitude activities for kids, teaching gratitude to children 🧸 5. Spend Quality Time — Without DistractionsOne-on-one time — even just 10-15 minutes a day — where your child feels fully seen and heard is a powerful emotional boost. Put the phone down. Make eye contact. Laugh. Play. Talk. Listen. This is how we communicate: 👉 “You matter to me.” 👉 “You are enough.” 👉 “I love you just the way you are.” Read + share with another mama who needs this reminder today. 💛 #MaternalMentalHealth #ChildrensMentalHealth #GentleParenting #MomLifeSupport #WellnessForMamas #EmotionalWellness #MindfulMotherhood
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4/30/2025 0 Comments "Holding Space in the Hardest Moments: How a Doula Supports You When Your Baby is in the NICU"When we talk about doulas, most people picture someone holding a laboring mom’s hand or folding tiny baby clothes in a cozy nursery. But what happens when the unexpected hits—when your new little love is whisked away to the NICU?
Those are the moments when support matters the most. How NICU Feels (And Why It's Okay to Say You're Struggling) The NICU is a world of beeping machines, unfamiliar medical terms, and tiny warriors who fight the toughest battles in silence. It’s okay to feel scared. It’s okay to feel helpless. And yes—it's okay to grieve the experience you imagined. As a doula, I believe holding space for ALL your feelings is just as important as holding your hand during birth. My role shifts to meet you where you are—whether that looks like navigating NICU protocols, advocating for your baby’s care, or simply offering a warm meal and a shoulder to cry on. Here’s How I Can Support You in the NICU: 💡 Emotional Anchor: Someone to listen (without judgment) when the rollercoaster of emotions feels too heavy to carry alone. 📋 Advocate & Guide: Helping you ask the right questions, understand your baby’s care plan, and feel empowered in the decisions you face. 🌿 Self-Care Support: Making sure YOU are eating, sleeping, and tending to your own nervous system—even in the eye of the storm. 👪 Transition Home: When that long-awaited discharge day comes, I’ll be there to bridge the gap—supporting feeding, bonding, and any lingering fears once baby is home. Why You Deserve Support (Yes, Even Now) NICU parents often feel like they have to “be strong” for their baby. But here’s a truth bomb: Being strong also means knowing when to ask for help. Doulas aren’t just for picture-perfect birth stories—they’re for the messy, unpredictable, heart-wrenching parts of parenting too. You deserve to be nurtured, even when you feel like your world is upside down. Final Thoughts: If you or someone you love is navigating the NICU journey, please know—a doula’s care extends beyond labor rooms and into the spaces where strength is quietly built day by day. ✨ You are not alone. You never have to be. If this resonates, I'm just a message or text away. 💛 Let's talk about how I can support you right where you are. Bath time can be one of the most magical bonding moments between you and your baby — all those giggles, bubbles, and cozy cuddles after. But behind the sweet moments, it’s essential to keep safety top of mind. Babies are slippery when wet (literally), and even the smallest oversight can lead to an accident.
Whether you're a new parent, caregiver, or supporting families through doula or infant care work, here are 10 essential baby bath safety tips every adult needs to know: 🧼 1. Never Leave Baby Unattended Even for a second — not to grab a towel, answer the door, or check your phone. If you need to step away, wrap baby up and take them with you. 🌡️ 2. Check Water Temperature First Use a bath thermometer or your wrist/elbow to ensure the water is between 97–100°F (36–38°C). Babies have sensitive skin that burns easily! 🧍♀️ 3. Gather Everything Beforehand Have towels, soap, washcloths, diapers, and clothes within arm’s reach before you place baby in the water. Preparation is key. 🛁 4. Use a Baby Bathtub Small, contoured tubs help support baby and reduce the risk of slipping. Place the baby tub inside your regular bathtub or sink for stability. 🧴 5. Skip the Slippery Soaps Use gentle, tear-free baby soap or shampoo. Avoid oils during bath time — they make your hands and baby super slippery. 🧍♂️ 6. Keep One Hand on Baby at All Times Especially for newborns and infants who can’t sit up yet. One hand should support their neck/head or body while the other gently washes. 💦 7. Fill the Tub Just a Few Inches Babies don’t need much water — 2 to 3 inches is plenty. For newborns, sponge baths may be best until the umbilical stump falls off. 🧽 8. Watch for Signs of Chilling Babies can get cold fast. Keep the room warm and use a soft washcloth to pour warm water over their body to maintain comfort. 🍼 9. Avoid Distractions Bath time is not the time to multitask. Turn off distractions, put your phone on silent, and stay fully present. 🌈 10. Dry and Dress Baby Right Away Have a soft hooded towel ready to wrap them up and gently pat dry. Pay special attention to skin folds to avoid irritation or rashes. Final Thoughts: Your little one’s safety is the real glow-up of bath time. Keep these tips in mind and make every splash a safe and soothing experience. 💧✨ Want more baby care tips? Subscribe or follow @Mooncyclemama for expert support from pregnancy through postpartum and beyond. You just drifted off into a rare moment of sleep, and then—BAM! You wake up drenched in sweat, feeling like you just ran a marathon. What is happening?!
Welcome to postpartum night sweats, where your hormones throw a sweaty little after-party while you sleep. Let’s break it down. Why Do Postpartum Night Sweats Happen? Blame it on hormonal shifts! After birth, your body flushes out extra fluids from pregnancy, and your dropping estrogen levels mess with your body’s ability to regulate temperature. The result? Soaked sheets and a whole lot of discomfort. How Long Do Night Sweats Last? For most new moms, they peak in the first 2-4 weeks postpartum and gradually improve. If they’re still intense after six weeks, check in with your doctor. How to Cope with Postpartum Night Sweats: 💦 Stay hydrated—your body is shedding extra fluids, so replenish often. 💦 Dress in lightweight, breathable fabrics—think cotton over synthetic materials. 💦 Keep the room cool—a fan or AC can be your best friend. 💦 Layer your bedding so you can easily swap out sweaty sheets. 💦 Change out of wet clothes quickly to avoid chills. Night sweats can be annoying, but they’re also a sign that your body is healing and adjusting after pregnancy. Just one more wild part of the postpartum rollercoaster! Hang in there, mama. 💕 Hey Mama, you’ve made it through pregnancy and birth—now it’s time to rest, recover, and soak up all those newborn snuggles. But what if I told you that some postpartum complications can sneak up after delivery, when you least expect it?
2/1/2025 0 Comments Postnatal Exercise Advice for New Mothers: A Guide to Regaining Strength and Vitality![]() Welcoming a new baby into the world is an incredible experience, but postpartum recovery is just as important as pregnancy itself. Engaging in safe postnatal exercise can help new mothers regain strength, boost energy levels, and improve mental well-being. Here’s a comprehensive guide to postnatal workouts that promote healing and fitness after childbirth. Benefits of Postnatal Exercise Strengthens Core and Pelvic Floor Muscles – Pregnancy and childbirth can weaken these muscles. Gentle exercises help restore strength and prevent issues like diastasis recti and incontinence. Boosts Mood and Reduces Stress – Physical activity increases endorphins, which combat postpartum depression and anxiety. Increases Energy Levels – Exercise helps fight postpartum fatigue by improving blood circulation and oxygen flow. Aids Weight Loss – Combining movement with a healthy diet can help new mothers shed pregnancy weight gradually and safely. Enhances Posture and Flexibility – Carrying and feeding a baby can strain the back and shoulders. Exercises focusing on posture help alleviate discomfort. When to Start Postnatal Exercise The ideal time to start postpartum workouts varies for each mother. Here’s a general guideline: Vaginal Birth – Light exercises such as pelvic floor exercises and walking can start as early as a few days postpartum, with physician approval. C-Section Recovery – Healing takes longer, so gentle movement can begin around 6-8 weeks postpartum after clearance from a doctor. Safe and Effective Postnatal Exercises 1. Pelvic Floor Exercises (Kegels) These help strengthen pelvic muscles, improve bladder control, and support recovery from childbirth. 2. Deep Breathing with Abdominal Engagement Diaphragmatic breathing helps reconnect the core muscles and reduce abdominal separation. 3. Walking A simple but effective low-impact exercise that promotes circulation, reduces stress, and enhances endurance. 4. Postnatal Yoga and Pilates These focus on flexibility, strength, and relaxation while being gentle on the body. 5. Bodyweight Strength Training Exercises like squats, modified push-ups, and glute bridges help rebuild overall body strength. Tips for a Safe and Successful Postnatal Workout Routine Listen to Your Body – If you feel pain, dizziness, or excessive fatigue, stop immediately and consult your healthcare provider. Stay Hydrated – Breastfeeding mothers need extra hydration; keep water nearby during workouts. Wear Supportive Gear – A well-fitted sports bra and comfortable clothing can make workouts more enjoyable. Include Baby in Workouts – Babywearing workouts or stroller walks allow bonding time while staying active. Seek Professional Guidance – A postpartum fitness coach or physical therapist can provide tailored advice. Conclusion Postnatal exercise is a powerful tool for new mothers to regain strength, boost confidence, and enhance overall well-being. With patience, consistency, and the right approach, you can safely reintroduce fitness into your routine. Always consult your healthcare provider before starting any postpartum workout program to ensure a safe recovery journey. ![]() Hey, Superdad. Let’s have a heart-to-heart. You’ve got the car seat installed, your diaper bag game is strong, and you’ve memorized every possible swaddle technique thanks to YouTube. But what no one prepared you for was the wave of emotions you’d feel after your baby arrived. Society talks a lot about postpartum challenges for moms (and rightly so), but let’s not skip over the fact that dads can feel the weight too. Postpartum anxiety isn’t just a “mom thing.” It’s a parent thing, and you’re not alone if you’re feeling overwhelmed, restless, or like there’s an invisible weight sitting on your chest. What Postpartum Anxiety Can Look Like for Dads For dads, postpartum anxiety often shows up in ways you might not immediately connect to mental health: Constant worry: Are you doing enough? Are you supporting your partner? Is the baby okay? Physical symptoms: That tight feeling in your chest, the restless nights (even when the baby is sleeping), or the inability to just sit still. Perfectionism: Feeling like every mistake makes you a “bad dad.” Emotional distance: Instead of embracing fatherhood, you might feel like pulling away. Sound familiar? You’re not broken. You’re adjusting to a life-altering event, and it’s okay to struggle. Why Does This Happen to Dads? Dads aren’t immune to the hormonal and emotional rollercoaster of parenthood. While moms might face biological triggers like hormonal shifts, dads can experience significant emotional stress: Shifting roles and responsibilities Pressure to “provide” or be the rock of the family Lack of sleep (we see you, midnight diaper duty) Fear of the unknown The result? Anxiety builds like steam in a kettle with no release valve. How to Cope with Postpartum Anxiety: Speak Up You don’t need to keep it all in. Share your feelings with your partner, a friend, or even a therapist. You’d be surprised how many dads feel the same way but are too afraid to say it. Educate Yourself Sometimes, knowing what’s normal and what’s not can ease your mind. Read up on newborn care or postpartum mental health for dads. Knowledge is power! Carve Out “You” Time Yes, you’re a dad now, but you’re still you. Whether it’s a 15-minute walk, a quick gym session, or gaming with friends, find something that grounds you in your own identity. Seek Support Join a dad group or an online forum where you can swap stories, advice, and maybe even a few dad jokes. You’re not in this alone. Be Patient with Yourself Parenthood is a marathon, not a sprint. You’re learning and growing just like your little one. Give yourself the grace to stumble. You’ve Got This, Dad Postpartum anxiety in dads isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s a sign you care. You’re navigating uncharted waters, and while the pressure may feel overwhelming at times, remember that every dad out there has moments of doubt. Superdad, you’re not alone in this. It’s okay to ask for help, to rest, and to admit that fatherhood is hard. Because it is. And even on the tough days, you’re doing an amazing job. What’s one thing you’ve found helpful in adjusting to dad life? Let’s keep the conversation going in the comments below. #PostpartumSupport #MensMentalHealth #DadsMatterToo #PostpartumAnxiety #FatherhoodJourney ![]() The holiday season is magical, but it can also be overwhelming—especially during the postpartum period. Between adjusting to life with your newborn and navigating holiday expectations, it’s easy to forget the most important thing: taking care of YOU. 🌟 Here are some tips to thrive this holiday season, with a little help from Moon Cycle Mama Doula and Wellness. Rest, Recharge, Repeat Your body is recovering, and your energy is precious. This is not the time to play hostess or attend every holiday event. ✔️ Nap when the baby naps (yes, really!). ✔️ Delegate tasks like cooking or shopping to family and friends. ✔️ Remember, saying “no” is an act of self-care. Prioritize Nourishment The holidays are full of indulgent treats, but your body needs healing foods to rebuild strength. ✔️ Focus on nutrient-rich meals like soups, whole grains, and leafy greens. ✔️ Hydrate often—breastfeeding or not, hydration is key to healing. ✔️ Let Moon Cycle Mama Doula and Wellness support you with postpartum meal planning or lactation-friendly recipes. Lean on Your Village Whether it’s family, friends, or your doula, don’t hesitate to ask for help: ✔️ Let loved ones handle gift wrapping, errands, or laundry. ✔️ Utilize your Moon Cycle Mama doula for postpartum check-ins, newborn care tips, and emotional support. ✔️ Feeling isolated? Schedule a virtual or in-person check-in with us to remind you that you’re not alone. Embrace Slow Traditions This year, focus on low-stress traditions that keep you present with your baby: ✔️ Snuggle under a cozy blanket and read holiday stories. ✔️ Take a slow walk outside to enjoy the festive lights. ✔️ Capture simple moments for your baby’s first holiday scrapbook. Protect Your Mental Health The holidays can stir up emotions, from joy to exhaustion. Be kind to yourself: ✔️ Keep expectations realistic—your best is enough. ✔️ If you feel overwhelmed, reach out. Moon Cycle Mama Doula and Wellness offers a compassionate ear and postpartum resources. ✔️ Practice small moments of mindfulness, like deep breathing or journaling. How Moon Cycle Mama Doula and Wellness Can Help With Moon Cycle Mama, you don’t have to navigate postpartum alone. We provide: ✔️ Postpartum recovery support tailored to your needs. ✔️ Lactation consulting for your breastfeeding journey. ✔️ Expert guidance on newborn care and self-care. ✔️ Resources for managing stress, healing, and finding your rhythm. 🎁 This holiday season, give yourself the gift of support, empowerment, and peace of mind. Let us help you feel seen, heard, and cared for as you adjust to your new role as a mom. 💕 Hi everyone! I’m so glad you’re here today.
Whether you’re a new mom, a seasoned pro, or somewhere in between, this conversation is for YOU. Mom life is beautiful, but let’s be real—it’s also tough. And finding balance? That can feel like chasing a unicorn some days. But I promise, it’s possible. Let’s talk about practical, doable steps to protect your mental health while managing all the hats we wear as moms. *1. Acknowledge Your Feelings* First things first—whatever you’re feeling is valid. Exhausted? Overwhelmed? Maybe even a little guilty for wanting some alone time? That’s okay. Being a mom doesn’t mean you stop being human. Here’s a tip: Try journaling or voice-noting your feelings, even if it’s just for a minute. Getting them out can be freeing. *2. Build Small Moments for Yourself* You don’t need hours of "me time" to recharge. Five minutes can do wonders. - Take your coffee outside. - Lock yourself in the bathroom for a quick reset. - Put on your favorite song and dance in the kitchen with or without your kids. Little moments add up to big changes. *3. Ask for Help—and Accept It* This one is HARD, I know. But hear me out: asking for help doesn’t mean you’re failing. It means you’re human. - Can a friend or partner watch the kids while you nap? - Maybe a family member can help with errands? Help is a gift for YOU and for your family. *4. Know Your Non-Negotiables* What do you need to feel like yourself? Is it a quiet morning? Regular therapy sessions? Exercise? Whatever it is, protect it fiercely. Communicate those needs to the people in your life. *5. Use Resources Around You* - Find a local mom group or support network. - Explore mental health apps like Headspace or Calm. - Look into community services for childcare or therapy options. If you’re feeling stuck, reach out. There are more resources out there than you think, and people want to help. *6. Let Go of Perfection* Repeat after me: “Good enough is GREAT.” Your kids don’t need you to be perfect; they just need you to be present. If you burned dinner or skipped the bedtime story, it’s okay. Your love is what they’ll remember. Mama, you’re not alone. Taking care of your mental health isn’t selfish; it’s essential. You can’t pour from an empty cup, so fill yours first. Small changes lead to big transformations, and you are so worthy of that balance. What’s one small thing you can do for yourself this week? Share it below—I’d love to cheer you on! 💖 ![]() As the holidays approach, it’s easy to get caught up in the celebrations and forget to prepare for the most important arrival of all—your baby! But this season can bring unique challenges for pregnant moms, especially in emergencies. 🌟 Let’s talk about how to stay prepared, informed, and supported. 🚨 Warning Signs for Emergency C-Sections Understanding the signs of a potential emergency can save precious time: Abnormal fetal heart rate Severe vaginal bleeding Prolonged labor with little progress Sudden, sharp abdominal pain Decreased fetal movement Educate your partner on what these signs look like and ensure they know to act quickly if something feels off. 🤝 Educate Your Partner on Advocacy Your birth partner plays a vital role in ensuring your wishes are respected, especially in high-stress moments. Equip them with knowledge about your birth plan and preferences: Discuss your non-negotiables (e.g., skin-to-skin, delayed cord clamping). Practice scenarios where they can speak up for you. Ensure they know who to contact for additional support (like your doula). 🌿 Why a Doula is Your Best Holiday Gift Hiring a doula means you have: Emotional and physical support throughout labor and delivery. An experienced advocate to help navigate medical jargon and stressful decisions. Continuous care that centers on your well-being and comfort. At Moon Cycle Mama Doula and Wellness, we’re here to be your anchor during the unpredictability of birth. 📝 The Importance of a Birth Plan Your birth plan is your voice when you can’t advocate for yourself. It ensures the entire care team understands your goals and preferences: Pain management choices. Labor positions. Emergency plans (e.g., how you feel about a C-section). Having a plan doesn’t mean everything will go exactly as written, but it ensures everyone is on the same page. 🌙 With Moon Cycle Mama, You’re Fully Covered Choosing Moon Cycle Mama Doula and Wellness means: ✔️ A trusted partner in creating and executing your birth plan. ✔️ A doula who knows how to work collaboratively with your partner and medical team. ✔️ Holistic, compassionate care during one of life’s most precious moments. 🎁 This holiday season, gift yourself the peace of mind that comes with being supported, prepared, and empowered. Connect with us today to learn more about how we can help you feel confident in your birthing journey. 💕 #HolidayBirthSupport #PregnancyAdvocacy #BirthPlan #EmergencyCSection #DoulaSupport #MoonCycleMamaWellness #EmpoweredBirth Educate Your Partner on Advocacy Your birth partner plays a vital role in ensuring your wishes are respected, especially in high-stress moments. 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AuthorKerri Honeywood is a Certified Doula/ Certified Lactation Specialist/ Holistic Healer/ Certified Reiki Master/ that works with Postpartum mothers and others that can benefit from holistic healing & support. She is the mother of five she understands the joys and challenges of motherhood and life in general. Archives
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