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1/10/2025 0 Comments

“When Superdad Feels the Weight: Tackling Postpartum Anxiety in Dads”

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Hey, Superdad. Let’s have a heart-to-heart.

You’ve got the car seat installed, your diaper bag game is strong, and you’ve memorized every possible swaddle technique thanks to YouTube. But what no one prepared you for was the wave of emotions you’d feel after your baby arrived.

Society talks a lot about postpartum challenges for moms (and rightly so), but let’s not skip over the fact that dads can feel the weight too. Postpartum anxiety isn’t just a “mom thing.” It’s a parent thing, and you’re not alone if you’re feeling overwhelmed, restless, or like there’s an invisible weight sitting on your chest.

What Postpartum Anxiety Can Look Like for Dads
For dads, postpartum anxiety often shows up in ways you might not immediately connect to mental health:

Constant worry: Are you doing enough? Are you supporting your partner? Is the baby okay?
Physical symptoms: That tight feeling in your chest, the restless nights (even when the baby is sleeping), or the inability to just sit still.
Perfectionism: Feeling like every mistake makes you a “bad dad.”
Emotional distance: Instead of embracing fatherhood, you might feel like pulling away.
Sound familiar? You’re not broken. You’re adjusting to a life-altering event, and it’s okay to struggle.

Why Does This Happen to Dads?
Dads aren’t immune to the hormonal and emotional rollercoaster of parenthood. While moms might face biological triggers like hormonal shifts, dads can experience significant emotional stress:

Shifting roles and responsibilities
Pressure to “provide” or be the rock of the family
Lack of sleep (we see you, midnight diaper duty)
Fear of the unknown
The result? Anxiety builds like steam in a kettle with no release valve.

How to Cope with Postpartum Anxiety:

Speak Up
You don’t need to keep it all in. Share your feelings with your partner, a friend, or even a therapist. You’d be surprised how many dads feel the same way but are too afraid to say it.

Educate Yourself
Sometimes, knowing what’s normal and what’s not can ease your mind. Read up on newborn care or postpartum mental health for dads. Knowledge is power!

Carve Out “You” Time
Yes, you’re a dad now, but you’re still you. Whether it’s a 15-minute walk, a quick gym session, or gaming with friends, find something that grounds you in your own identity.

Seek Support
Join a dad group or an online forum where you can swap stories, advice, and maybe even a few dad jokes. You’re not in this alone.

Be Patient with Yourself
Parenthood is a marathon, not a sprint. You’re learning and growing just like your little one. Give yourself the grace to stumble.

You’ve Got This, Dad
Postpartum anxiety in dads isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s a sign you care. You’re navigating uncharted waters, and while the pressure may feel overwhelming at times, remember that every dad out there has moments of doubt.

Superdad, you’re not alone in this. It’s okay to ask for help, to rest, and to admit that fatherhood is hard. Because it is. And even on the tough days, you’re doing an amazing job.

What’s one thing you’ve found helpful in adjusting to dad life? Let’s keep the conversation going in the comments below.
#PostpartumSupport
#MensMentalHealth
#DadsMatterToo
#PostpartumAnxiety
#FatherhoodJourney
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    Kerri Honeywood is a Certified Doula/ Certified Lactation Specialist/ Holistic Healer/ Certified Reiki Master/  that works with Postpartum mothers and others that can benefit from holistic healing & support. She is the mother of five she understands the joys and challenges of motherhood and life in general.

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